Shalom,
This is the inaugural edition of my email newsletter, tentatively titled, “Wolbe Weekly”. I hope, please God, to send a new email each Thursday. The weekly email newsletters will consist of the following five segments:
- Things I am thinking about and working on
- Podcast outtakes – raw, unedited ideas tidbits, and potpourri that did not make the final cut of the podcast
- Podcast feedback and conversation
- Snapshot of the week’s podcasts and related episodes
- Partner and investor reports
What I want to accomplish with this newsletter:
My #1 goal of this newsletter is to make this newsletter interesting and valuable to you. I will strive not to bore you and not to waste your time. This is the very beginning and I will be experimenting and tinkering with different ideas. I am not pledging to include each of these five segments in every email, but this is my current framework and I hope you enjoy it.
This email is going out to all my contacts and podcast listeners whose email address I know. If you are not interested in receiving these emails please unsubscribe from this list. I am desperately worried about causing people undue pain and clutter. I will not hold it against you if you leave.
I am still looking for a catchy title for this newsletter. It seems like convention is to have some sort of alliteration in the title, so right now I’m vacillating between “Wolbe Weekly” and “Thursday Thoughts”. Let me know if you have any preference or any other good ideas.
With that done, let’s get to this week’s content:
What I am thinking about – Bridging the Divide between the various strands of the Jewish world
I am opposed to thinking about the Jewish people in terms of denominations, as if to say that a “Reform” Jew and a “Conservative” Jew and an “Orthodox” Jew are not part of the same family. I have been trained to view the Jewish Nation as a single people, one family, as indivisible as a single human body. The notion of compartmentalizing our people into different boxes is anathema to me. Consequently, I think one of my missions in life is to try to bring as much unity amongst the various different strands and strata of our people.
That said, I had an interesting conversation with a friend of mine this week. We were discussing the various kinds of Jewish communities and their relationships with each other. What I found so fascinating about our conversation is how this polarization and partisanship affects people on all sides of the religious strata.
My friend was telling me how people who were raised Reform are often terrified of Orthodox and overtly religious people. They are scared of making mistakes and not knowing what to do and not knowing proper protocol; there is a dread of “what if they asked me questions and I don’t know the answer.” It would be really scary, says my friend, for someone who grew up attending a Reform synagogue to go to an Orthodox one.
He also mentioned that going to a Shabbos meal in the Orthodox home may be a very nerve-wracking experience. You don’t know what to do, what to talk about, and how to behave. You are on edge. In his words, many people have a “phobia” of Orthodox Jews.
What I found so fascinating about this is that I have seen the identical sentiment from the other side. I was raised in a totally observant world, in a totally observant community, and was fortunate enough to spend many years in yeshiva, and I have found that people who grow up in an Orthodox community are often terrified of people who are less observant.
What makes it so ironic is that the same fears that the less observant people have the more observant people have. “What if they ask me questions and I don’t know the answer? What if they asked me to prove the veracity of Torah?” What if they asked me about complicated theological and religious questions that I myself don’t really know the answer to?”
I feel like I have visibility into both sides of this divide. I have many friends who hail from every kind of Jewish background: spanning from people who have absolutely no traditional background in Jewish learning or practice to people who speak fluent Yiddish, and study Talmud all day long, and know the whole Torah by heart, and who are totally immersed in the observant, religious, pious way of life.
So one of the things I am thinking about is various ways that we can reunite our people. I can assure you that at Sinai, the nation was not denominationally segregated. For us to once again achieve our peak, we must be reunited as one. Indeed one of the hallmarks of the Messianic era is the reunification of our people.
To a large extent, I think it’s happening already. The polemics and the ideological battles of the 19th century are over, and in my opinion, things are trending towards consolidation. But this is definitely something to work on.
I’ve been thinking about maybe doing a podcast for people who are going to their first traditional Shabbos meal: What to expect, what they need to do, what the process is going to look like, etc. And also the flip side, I have been toying with doing a podcast for my more traditional brethren to teach them how to engage and interact with Jews who don’t have the same traditional background in Jewish learning and practice.
What are your thoughts on this subject?
Podcast Outtakes – Sodom Sodium
Some quick thoughts on Lot’s wife turning into a pillar of salt. Click HERE for the audio –
Parsha Point to Ponder – Not a Laughing Matter
There are four instances of laughter in this week’s Parsha, Parshas Vayeira. Upon careful examination it seems that each instance connotes a different type of laughter:
- When Sarah hears the angels masquerading as travelers foretelling that she and her husband Abraham, both nonagenarians long past fertility, will bear a child, she laughs. This is an INCREDULOUS laughter. (Genesis 18:12-15)
- When Lot tries to hustle his family out of Sodom before the angels overturn the city, his sons-in-law laugh at his ridiculous suggestion. This is a mocking, SARDONIC, deriding laughter (Genesis 19:14)
- When Isaac is born, Sarah exclaims that God has made a laughter to me, and all that hear it will also laugh. This was a delightful, EXUBERANT laughter that permeated the whole world. (Genesis 21:6)
- When Sarah sees Ishmael behaving in a sinful way, the verse describes Ishmael as laughing. The commentaries explain that this laughter refers to either idolatry, promiscuity, or murder. This was a SINFUL and corrupt laughter. (Genesis 21:9)
Apparently there are at least four different kinds of laughter. Ain’t that funny? What does it mean? I don’t know. This is a point to ponder
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Have an amazing Shabbos,
With warmth and friendship,
Yaakov